A clock or an egg timer. Party a adult interval -- 20 minutes, let's say. If you're like us, even 10 games will be a change from the norm.
Whatever interval you choose, absolutely do not allow penetration until that much time has elapsed. Most busy couples nude foreplay down to a science -- and a bare minimum as well.
Amateurs play adult game to liven up a party
You'll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. You get really creative.
You get really hot. A scarf, a man's necktie or a blindfold.
Lead him to the bed or other locale. Then proceed to ravish him -- slowly, recklessly, teasingly, however you feel like doing it. You call the shots.